There is a friend who is completely dissimilar to me, which makes me not feel comfortable around her. What I can do? Because I feel guilty when she don't stay around me. What I can do?

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Remember one thing that when your presence don't make any impect with anyone it's better to be alone. Let them be comfortable with their own world and work. Don't disturb them then. You may feel guilty but your tolerance will make you a stronger person from inner and outer side also. And this things may looks ugly to you for sometimes. But this thing will never make you a cheap person in front of anyone. Maybe they don't care but you will not be a toy to them.



And this thing earn you respect. Which is more costly than attention. You beg for. Sorry maybe this line hurt you but it's true. You have to accept it that that person is not good for your aura. So don't let anyone disturb your aura because you want attention from it. Don't beg. Take risk -tolerate -persistent- and you will learn something new for whole Life.


And one good news :-👇

  • Best flower will always meet you in end. Not very soon. Because half rotten is always sour. So don't ask for that relax and wait the time will come and you will get your fruit must.

 How to get rid from this type of feelings:-👇

  1. Write down your all-feelings on a page give her if she understand you she will be with you. Don't hesitate. What will happen next. It will just help you to find out that is she really value you or not. If she isn't happy with you understand that their is not profit to give your valuable time to those people.  And after that take that page and go and burn it or throw it in bin. This will help you to understand that you are free now. 
  2. Go and sit with your true friend and tell him about your feelings but not the whole. 
  3. Journal yourself and ask yourself is she really makes you happy or not. Try to write your answer on a page with true intention and write what you really like in her and you will get you half answer and by this you will understand is it worthy or not. 
  4. Visit to those places where you haven't visited with her and you will find something new and your brain will tell you that there is more than her to visit and there are many things you are missing with her.
  5. Don't take the help of addictions. It will just puzzled you down more and more day by day. Take the help of exercises-meditations and journaling and Guru's. You can read books you admire listen the song specially sad ones it will give you will power to make you more stronger than before.
  6. Keep yourself engaged and hydrated. 
  7. Talk with your friends and parents must. If you don't want to share them your feelings then talk about something else but must invest your time with them.
  8. Visit in nature, take sunlight. 
  9. Challenge yourself daily. But in a limit.


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